Thursday, November 11, 2010

The Multi-Millionaire Next Door: My 2-cents on How to Become One

You are the multi-millionaire next door. And you probably don't know it.

We know of Henry Sy and Lucio Tan. But who is Philip Ang? The 3 of them are in Forbes Magazine's richest list in the Philippines. Henry Sy is worth 5 billion dollars, Lucio Tan is at 2.1 billion dollars while Philip Ang is at the "bottom" of the 40 Forbes Magazine-listed richest Pinoys, worth 50 million dollars. Many probably know that Henry Sy and Lucio Tan own conglomerates. But little is known about Philip Tan because he's in the field of mining (with holdings in Taganito Mining and Nickel Asia).

It's safe to say that the 3 gentlemen are of Chinese descent. But that doesn't automatically make them multi-millionaires (actually, billionaires!). The question is, "how did they do it?" And the next best question would be, "can I do it?" Yes, you can.

To be one, think like one.

The mind is one heck of a powerful engine of humans that if they are just able to tap 10% of its capability, then a lot can be achieved. Your brain is so powerful that it can command the other body parts to do what it tells them to do. Thus, what the mind can conceive, the body can achieve.

Have a multi-millionaire mindset. As my old friend John Calub would say in his seminars, be a "Money-Magnet." People attract what they want to attract. So first, you'll have to think and believe that you will be rich. Tell yourself everyday that you will get rich. This is the subject of the book and film titled "The Secret."

When I was little, I knew in my heart that I would someday be a successful entrepreneur of sorts. We weren't well-off then. But I wanted to have those cool toys my rich classmates had. I had a pair of used penlight batteries as toys way back then (boo-hoo). In my mind, I saw myself as a rich and successful entrepreneur. I had to start somewhere so I practiced. I started when I was in grade 3. I started a small comics rental business after school hours. I sold Choc-nut to classmates and family. I even went around the campus collecting soda bottles to claim "deposit" at the canteen. I eventually graduated to selling magazine subscriptions in high school and jewelry and retailed eggs in college. Today, I have a media consulting enterprise and some billboard rentals on the side. I also do seminars on starting a business with no capital. :)

Even if you pray daily for financial blessings, but you are not truly convinced that you can have these riches, then you won't have them. That's how it works, my friend.

Don't be afraid to dream. 

Never believe when others say,"only in your dreams" that you can achieve and be who you want to be. If you don't dream, there's nothing to come true, right? Be concrete and specific on what you want to have and be. Have a Dream Board. Also called a Vision Board or Dashboard, this is a collage of pictures and affirmations of your dreams or visions. Like a dashboard, a dream board is supposed to be some kind of a control panel which is in front of you all the time. It helps direct you towards your destination or goal. Affirmations such as Ï am Healthy, I am Rich, I am a Pilot, I have a large Farm, etc. are key to having an effective, besides a picturesque, board.  Place it somewhere you can see everyday -- when you wake up and just before you go to sleep. The Dream Board will help you maintain your focus. I placed a Tagaytay House and Lot in my 2010 Dream Board last December. I bought a nice property right beside the clubhouse last April. :)

Stay Away from Negative People

The company you keep defines who you are. Many years ago, I was bent on fulfilling my dreams. I wanted to build my own house as a promise to my wife. In my haste, I didn't take time to assess the people I dealt with. Their negativities affected my dealings. Eventually I closed all my businesses with them and just pursued my consulting and corporate job. Today, I only keep positive people within my circle. They provide the sunshine despite some storms that come.

Save and Invest Properly.

Put away at least 10% of your net income (after taxes) in banks and financial interests that earn a decent return. A decent return is defined as something you're comfortable with and not putting too much risk on your savings. There are many financial instruments available besides the basic savings account that only earns 1% interest per year. Ask your bank what they have to offer. There are those bundled savings with "free" insurance, mutual funds, and others tied to the stock market. Of course, you have to calculate and decide the acceptable risk on your part such as purely stock trading. Stay away from forex trading unless you have a real expert to help you out with. Read books and the newspaper for insights. My basic investment instruments are: property (especially with rental opportunities), gold and cash (all kinds of stable currencies like Hong Kong Dollars). If you are an OFW recipient of U.S. Dollars, put some of your money in U.S. Dollar-denominated mutual funds to safeguard your money from erratic exchange rates with the Peso.

If you know of a financial adviser, much better. They are the experts in handling money and making them grow. If you don't know one or can't afford one, then be one. Read up on investment subjects. Just make sure they appeal to you and are comfortable with them. Also make sure the types of investments are applicable to your situation or location.

The best investment I would recommend is a business. It's more long-term and fun. No need to depend on retirement financial plans. If you're looking for the safest investment haven, buy gold. :)

Be an Entrepreneur.

Everyone has a knack for business. Only in the Philippines will you find Sari-Sari Stores in almost every street.You have probably noticed food kiosks sprouting almost everywhere commercially possible. There was the Litson Manok, Shawarma, and Zagu phenomena. Today, it's Double Burger and Scramble.

We just don't know it, but anyone can sell something. The most basic is selling ourselves. If we can't sell ourselves to anyone, we won't have any friends or relationships, right? Besides, everyone has some kind of talent and interest. Discovering what talents and interests we have is the first step in being a successful entrepreneur. Remember that entrepreneurs do not work a day in their lives. They simply do what they love to do -- whatever it may be. They simply add a lot of research, hardwork, and faith to what they pursue, and they're off!

You can be an entrepreneur. Believe it. Work on it.

Learn perpetually.

No one is too old to study. You have to continue learning new things and to keep abreast of technology. Improve on your skills. These are the great enablers in life. If you fall behind, you will miss out on a lot of opportunities.

In 1995, when the Internet was just starting to become commercially applicable, I was blessed to be part of a publishing company that was launching digital versions of its products. We were "forced" to learn this new technology which introduced links to the World Wide Web. Two years later, I was employed as an "expert" in Internet advertising by a travel website that made 25 thousand dollars in banner advertising in its first 3 months of operation. It was surely unheard of in those years, especially when I sold advertising spaces in the Philippines -- during the Asian Crisis!

Today, having studied basic web and graphic design, and having been in digital media ever since, many consider me a veteran (not old, huh!). Well, only a few people like Janette Toral (one of the authors of the E-Commerce Law) and my good friend Jovel Cipriano (Pinoydelikasi.com) can claim to be digital media veterans and experts. We have continuously studied trends and have branched out into separate niches: Janette into blogging, Jovel into e-commerce safety, and me into social media and digital marketing consulting

Don't be lazy to learn. Learning is freedom.

Be the Millionaire Next Door.

You are a certified millionaire when you have a million pesos in cash stashed somewhere. Whether it's in the bank or in some financial instrument like mutual funds, as long as it's cash, then you're liquid.

When you have earned your first million, keep your head down. Maintain a low profile. Be humble. This attitude keeps you frugal and thus, maintains your liquidity. Of course, you have to enjoy your money, too. Just don't spend beyond your "investable" means. You can spend from your earnings but not on your principal.

Avoid spending on flashy cars unless you can truly afford it. Cars depreciate in value over time. But if you're really looking into a worthy automobile, buy a Mercedez Benz. The Benz doesn't lose its value much over time. Parts are available and don't cost a fortune. Japanese-made cars like the Honda Civic, CRV or Odyssey, or Toyota Altis are also considered investments based on dependability and availability of parts,  without spending top dollar.


One last thing.

If you're "in the market" for a long-time partner, find someone who will complement you. Find a teammate. I may be a good salesman and business developer but I couldn't have saved and invested properly without my finance manager and lifetime partner, my Sweetie. I tell her my plans. If she disagrees after much convincing on an investment opportunity, I don't go for it. Your partner has to be the person who is on-the-outside- looking-in. This gives you a different perspective when finding the right financial instrument, investment or savings. And believe it or not, my Sweetie holds the so-called key to the vault and my ATM (haha). That keeps my hand away from the cookie jar. :)

The Challenge.

I want you to be the next Multi-millionaire Next Door. When you do, share your blessings in whatever way you can. Remember that we are just stewards. We are only passing through. Let us leave this world better than we found it.

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HOMER NIEVERA
Business Development. Social Media. Digital Marketing.
http://homernievera.net

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Friday, January 29, 2010

ALERT! Anna Marie Velasco Text Scam


“An angel crying for help.”

Wow, what a tag line! This SMS scammer should have been a copywriter for the advertising industry. It pinches the heart, doesn’t it? Then again, beware!

I received this text (in Fiipino) through my Globe number last January 25, 2010:

“Pued po b akong humingi ng 2long sa inyo? I’m marie, 21yo fresh grad po from Bacolod City. Gagawin ko po ang lahat ng kapalit na gusto nio, ma2lungan nio lng po akong makapunta sa mynila.My job hiring n asana po kc ako jan sa san mig-ortigas, syang po kc kung madissolve lng..Im willing to take the risks ng kpalit na hhngin nio. Un nlng tlga pgasa ko na mkluwas kgd pra mhbol deadline ko po. My pic & supporting docs po ako sa http://www.mariebacolod.tk – marie”


In my terms, it was “tagos sa puso.” I worked for San Miguel before and was sure this was indeed a great opportunity for new grads. If you had the money to give for fare for the sake of charity, why not? Forget the part “she’ll do anything in exchange” as it is so un-Christian. So I checked her site and read it. I researched on the web and alarm bells already sounded. It was a scam.

A few days later, this is the text I got:

Name: Marie Velasco
Age: 21
Birthdate: Feb 21, 1987
Height: 5'7"
Complexion: Fair
Vital Stats: 35-25-36
Hair: Long and straight
Other: joined some provincial pageants for allowance
Course: BS Information Management (Computer and Accountancy)
School: DOST Scholar in University of St. La Salle – Bacolod
Parents: Anna and Mario Velasco (both deceased)
Picture: www.mariebacolod.tk

So I just played along and texted back and asked how I could help and this was “her” initial reply:

“My deadline na po sana kasi ako dis coming Feb 1 po.. 9am sa San Miguel ITServices department pos a ortigas. Junior IT Specialist po ung position na inaapplayan ko.. Sayang po tlga kc dhl related sa course ko.. Final briefing nlang po sana..”

Then I asked how much money was needed for fare, “her” reply was:

“Depende po kung saan nio ko pasasakayin.. Barko o eroplano po? Ung boat fare sa superferry is 2,350 po with 4 trips per week. Monday, wed, fri and Sunday po. While ung plane po is 3,268 with 3 flights EVERYDAY po”

By this time, it was obvious that this scammer has cut-and-paste answers. The actual fares were really cheap. The deadline was supposedly February 1 so the option of taking the boat was out of the question as it will take 2-3 days to get to Manila from Bacolod City. Besides, the fact that it takes the texter between 12 to 24 hours to respond means that “she” is not really that desperate and changes SIM cards, the one being used to scam not a permanent one.

Here are the websites the scammer built for a tinge of legitimacy:

www.marievelasco.tk
www.mariebacolod.tk
www.avelasco.cjb.net



This text scam dates back to June 2008 from the first time a blog about it was posted and many other earlier posts on the subject. It has been active the whole of 2009 till this year as per my personal account.

Be careful out there my good-hearted friends. Wolves abound.

-Homer

Some links to other posts on the Anna Marie Velasco Text Scam:

http://makeuseoftime.blogspot.com/2009/03/annamarie-velasco.html
http://docmnel.com/2008/06/04/anna-marie-velasco-another-scam-in-the-making/comment-page-1/
http://menardconnect.com/2009/08/01/sms-scam-marie-velasco/comment-page-1/#comment-2417
http://kokoro15.multiply.com/journal/item/35
http://bluemaldita.livejournal.com/13298.html
http://blog.richardorlino.com/2009/12/the-anna-marie-velasco-scam/
http://www.filipinowriter.com/marie-velasco-mag-ingat-sa-manlolokong-ito

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Friday, November 21, 2008

Life Isn't by Chance

Purpose. This is what life is really all about.

If you haven't found yours yet, don't be so hard-pressed in finding what it is. It will come to you. Purpose in life is sought out or sorted out. It simply finds you wherever and in whatever state you are.

I was five years old when I had this sudden feeling of panic. I was so young then but when I gazed upon the setting sun through a window of our small Makati City apartment, it hit me -- "What am I here on earth for?"

The sun, so big and majestic on it's heavenly place, represented the mighty Creator. It seemed to look down upon me. I imagined the billions of people on earth who might have thought the same. The sun looking upon each and every being on earth. Amazing how God saw us on an individual basis!

If that was so, would life unfold just by chance? Could we really do anything and not be noticed? Not a chance for sure!

Everyone and everything that we do MUST have a purpose. Even the people we meet and make part of our lives have a reason.

There are no mistakes in life. They normally are planned bumps on life's road or in many instances, detours. Happy victories are not because of our individual circumstances or by coincidence. They are part of the plan. You see, if you believe in a Supreme Being who has created each and every cell in your body, then you should wonder "for what purpose?" He has a plan -- an individual plan, that is.The only thing that will make things go "wrong" is when we defy "the plan."

I have always believed that the most important thing created in us is the heart. This is where the "will" resides. The "will" is both God's will and our own that drives us to our direction. I believe that God's plan and timing are ALWAYS PERFECT. Nothing He does will be by accident. So we are definitely not here by accident. We just need to examine our heart more to know of our purpose. Remember, God resides in and speaks through the heart. Listen.

Our conscience is our compass. It is not connected to our brain but is wired to our heart. It works on a database of experiences and learnings. Thus, if we just meditate and pray for wisdom and discernment, we will definitely know where and when to go. As timing is also crucial, this bit has to be specifically prayed for as well.Just remember that prayers are always answered. We just have to accept the answer even if we don't agree with it.

Choices. Why are we always faced with crossroads? This is the exciting part of life. This is also a gift that God has given us. We are free to choose what door to open or what road to take. Scared to choose which door to open or which road to take? Pray. Listen to your heart. Besides, even the angels had their choices, right? One chose to be king and above the Creator and was given the key to hell.He should have stayed loyal to His Creator instead.

So life which resides in all of us isn't by chance. Let's not wait till we're in mid-life to ask ourselves "where to?" but instead always pray and seek your heart on "where to now?"
It's the "now" that's really important. Yesterday ended last night and tomorrow may never come.

Throw the dice away. You don't need it.

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Wednesday, November 12, 2008

That Joy You Bring













Joy is the word I would describe
The way I feel about you.
It might be because of your charm
That accompanies your smile,
Or the way you do your hair
That captures me to a constant gaze.

You astonish me with your wisdom;
And the strength of your soul
Encompasses my world,
As nothing in me and within me
Escapes the aura of stillness and calm
That you bring into my life.

I am enchanted by your inner being.
Happiness rules your life.
Your faith and will are impregnable.
Your naive but complete honesty
Betrays the innocence of your heart.
There lies the strength of your character.

Tomorrow may bring sadness,
But surely it will never overcome
The joy you continue to bring into me
Tomorrow may bring sadness,
But surely it will never overcome
The joy you continue to bring into me
For there will always be more days
Of sunshine than rain
Knowing you’ll always be around.

(a poem for Jinky during our anniversary 2006)

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Thursday, October 23, 2008

Give Back, Find a Friend

In true friendships, one has to know when to be the giver or the recipient.

Love is the foundation of friendship. It is like water that needs to be poured into a glass, represented by the heart. There has to be careful balance. When you keep on giving love and nothing comes back to you, you feel empty.

Be sensitive to the needs of your friends. If you are the type who's always in need of love and attention, you will soon find out that your friends are diminishing. You would have sapped all of their love that nothing's left as you don't give anything back. They'll have to find that love from someone else.

If you've been deeply hurt from past relationships or were abandoned, and haven't really been able to recover from it, you would've have failed to love yourself. You will be lonely. The solution? Love yourself first then it will be easy to love others. You cannot give what you don't have.

God, the giver of life, wants us to love Him back. That's the sole purpose of our existence. As we are made from God's love, having the same love for others means bringing the love back to our Maker. The circle of life is the circle of love.

Thus, true friendship is all about filling the other person with attention, fellowship, encouragement, care, trust, and even touch. Connecting, like love, is two-way. If you get a simple "hi" or a forwarded message from a friend, a simple "thank you" would be enough. You have to make your friend feel that you care as well.

Isn't it that whether you laugh or cry together with a friend, you feel refreshed? Or when you share a story, a reaction of a nod or smile is fulfilling enough? That's because the communication is shared. There is a connection.

That is why whenever I would find someone who wants to give more than he or she would take, I would want that person to be my friend. I know I can give back something, anything.

It is easier to love a friend who loves you back. It makes the relationship last. Find a friend who can love you back, you've got a friend for life!

Looking for more friends? Give something back.

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Friday, October 17, 2008

Can We Be Real Friends?



I always ask myself this question whenever I invite or get invited to be a friend with someone I’d “virtually” meet online. I have more than 600 friends in Facebook, more than 300 in Linkedin and a couple more in Friendster. I’d say, of almost 1,000 friends – social or professional – I have personally met only 100 of them. Is that a bad thing?

Technology has driven the way we communicate and associate with people. When what was supposed to create more time and space for us to be “free” has actually caused us to cram more things into our lives. Now, our lives are so cluttered that we don’t even have real time for real people.

Time is a valuable commodity. Sadly, it’s not renewable. We can’t even buy it. No matter how much money or connections we have, we simply can’t influence time. True to the old adage, time waits for no one. Thus, given just a few minutes to socialize, we meet, greet and keep our friends in online space. Then again, are they real friends?

We have used the online social and professional networks to connect and reconnect. We’ve found former classmates, officemates, friends, and maybe even lost loves. With photos and albums galore, we have found a way to share our lives to others. We have found virtual space to share our trials, triumphs, notes, journals, status, availability, ability, faith and hopes. These are the things that remind us of our needs as human beings.

I love coffee shops. They were made for personal conversations. They were created so we can just sit around, enjoy a cup of coffee and watch people and the world go by. Like the coffee that warms your lips, coffee shops make you feel the warmth of people around you. Friends that you make over a meal or a cup of coffee are seemingly for real. Yes, they can also break your heart. But they’re for real. What you see is what you get.

What about my online friends – are they for real, too? I’m talking about friends whom I have never personally met in my entire life. It’s either I invite them or they invite me. After which, I say a casual “hi” or greet them on their birthdays. I also comment on their notes, blogs, journals or status. I just want to somehow interact with them, even if it will only take me a few seconds or minutes of my time. As long as I have shared a bit of my time with them, I consider them as friends. Well, I am for real. I don’t really care if they aren’t.

Guess what? I have made some real friends online. I have even been invited to their birthdays, weddings and family gatherings. I’ve even godfathered some in their weddings and children’s Christenings.

Technology may have changed the way we interact with others today. What hasn’t changed is the need (read as: urge) to genuinely connect. Hopeful that every human being we meet online is the real deal, we’ll never stop connecting and reconnecting. We were wired to be social beings. That’s who we are. So, I guess it won’t really matter if my online friend is genuine as long as I know I am. That is my nature. Maybe even human nature. That is what really matters. I have a conscience. I have a heart. Most of all, I have a soul. Now that's for real.

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Saturday, August 30, 2008

KOMITMENT: PAGBIBIGAY NG BUONG BUHAY SA DIYOS

Mateo 10:37 – 11-1

“Ang umiibig sa ama o sa ina nang higit sa Akin ay hindi karapat-dapat sa Akin. At ang umiibig sa anak na lalaki or babae nang higit sa Akin ay hindi karapat-dapat sa Akin. Ang hindi nagpapasan ng kanyang krus at sumusunod sa Akin ay hindi karapat-dapat sa Akin. Ang nag-iingat ng kanyang buhay ay siyang mawawalan nito, at ang nawawalan ng kanyang buhay dahil sa Akin ay magkakamit nito.”

Sa mga panahong ito, mas madaling iwasan ang komitment kesa tuparin ito. Sa lakas ng salitang ito, tila kumikitil ng laya. Sadyang taliwas ito sa buhay na makasarili at lubhang mahirap pangalagaan at gawing pang matagalan. Para kasing taliwas ito sa malayang pamumuhay at sa kasabihang “sarili kong desisyon at gawa.” Animo’y nakakasira ng pamumuhay.

Sa salita ng Diyos sa Mateo 10:34 (at sa sumusunod), mabigat ang pananaw ni Hesus ukol sa pagpapahalaga ng isang komitment. Sinasabi din dito na dahil sa pagsunod kay Kristo, makararanas ng paghihirap, sama ng loob, persekusiyon at iba pa. Sadyang hindi madali ang maging disipulo ni Hesus. Subalit nangako naman Siya nang walang hanggang buhay sa kabila ng lahat ng paghihirap na ito. Ito ang mas mahalagang pagtuunan ng pansin.

Ito ang hamon sa atin sa pagsunod kay Hesus. Maaaring di tayo lubos na maintindihan ng ating mga mahal sa buhay man o kaibigan -- tila laging may di pagkakaunawaan. Lalu na kung ang isa ay lubos ang dedikasyon sa pagsunod kay Kristo at ang iba ay hindi. Nagiging tila kaaway tuloy ang turingan ng magpapamilya. Hindi kasi lubos na maintindihan ng iba ang tunay na responsibilidad ng isang tagasunod ni Hesus. Ang nagyayari tuloy ay bumibigay na lamang ang isang disipulo at tumitigil sa kanyang gawaing ispirituwal.

Sa iba naman, mas nagiging mahalaga ang kumita ng pera na kung tutuusin nama’y biyayang kaloob ni Hesus dahil na rin sa serbisiyong ipinagkakaloob sa Kanya. Habang lumalaki ang kita, lumalaki na rin ang distansiya sa pamilya, sa mga taong sineserbisyuhan, at higit sa lahat sa Diyos. Matapos makamit ang biyayang inasam, ang komitment nila ang humihina. Mas maraming na silang dahilan.

Ang pagpasan ng Krus ni Hesus ang pinakamahalaga sa lahat. Tinuturuan Niya tayong unahin Siya kesa ibang bagay. Mabigat man dalhin ang kanyang Krus, kasama naman natin Siya sa ating paglalakbay. Iba na dapat ang ating pananaw simula nang tayo’y mag-komit sa Kanya.

Ang hamon sa atin ay ang kung paano natin ibibigay ang natitira pa nating buhay sa serbisyo sa Panginoon. Ito ang nais ng Panginoon. Nangako naman si Hesus na “sa Aking kaharian, maraming mansiyon.”

Iba na dapat ang ating pinapahalagahan. Buhay ng iba kesa sa sarili natin. Tutal, dumaraan lamang tayo sa mundong ito. Di naman natin alam kung bukas o sa makalawa’y buhay pa tayo. Sayang naman ang panahon.

Pagnilayan: Nasaan ba ang aking priyoridad mula nang ako’y mag-komit sa Diyos? Handa pa rin ba akong tanggapin ang hamon ng pagpasan ng Kanyang Krus?